It is not my submissive husband’s fate, but a true alpha’s willingness to swap spouses

There is jealousy in my husband's willingness to swap. I'm a true alpha, but not being a submissive takes away a hell of a lot of my attraction. Nothing when it comes to my huge pussy lips vs. his cock and his interracial affairs are a turn off. He’s got an unappealing old, hairy body.